This came up strongly during sitting this morning...
When we are fully receptive to Existence, when we fully surrender to Existence, we make ourselves available to all the gifts it offers to us. When we let go of resistance, there is a sweetness even in the pain, confusion and suffering.
And we see that there is really no separation. The outside and inside is a seamless whole, or rather - there is no outside and inside. We are enlightened by the ten thousand dharmas.