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Common beliefs

A brief set of common beliefs for inquiry, including for inquiry circles.

Life

Life is too ... hard, painful, difficult
Life should be easier
Life should make it easier for me to ... be myself, heal, enjoy myself
Life should support me more
Life should serve me better

God

God should take care of me
God should serve me better
God should make it easier for me
I am not connected with God
I should be more connected with God

The world

The world is ... a dangerous place, hostile
The world should ... make my life easier, serve me better
There is no room for me in the world
I am afraid of the world

My body

My body should be ... different, healthier, thinner, fit, serve me better
My brain should ... remember better, function better, serve me better
My body represents me to the world
If I ... eat differently, excersise, visualize better, my body would be healthier

If only

If only ... I would be ... happy, at peace, OK, content

I need to be loved

I need to be ... loved, liked, respected, approved of
I need ... my parents, spouse, children, friends, co-workers to love me
If I am not loved, something terrible will happen

People don't love me

Nobody ... loves, likes me
People don't love me
It is possible for people to not love me
It is possible to be unlovable
I am unlovable

People won't love me if...

People won't ... love, like, respect, approve of me if ... they knew all about me, they knew me as I really am, they knew me as I do, I am fully myself, I disagree with them, I don't live up to their expectations, I am better/worse than they are

I need to be a certain way for people to love me

Safety

I need to be safe
I need to do everything right to be safe
It is possible to not be safe

Attacked or ignored

People will attack me (if...)
People are waiting for a reason to attack me

People will attack me for no good reason
People will attack me for what I say
People will attack me and I won't know why
People will attack or ignore me if I speak and choose freely
People shouldn't attack me

Integrity

People shouldn't lie
I need to live according to what I know is right, my own integrity
I need to live from integrity, authenticity

Hopelessness

I can't get what I want
Nothing can help me
There is no point
I can't go on
I can't go on with/without ...
I can't deal with ... life, my life, this situation
I am a victim (of circumstances, life)
Inquiry won't work for me

I am different

I am/my problems are different

Worse/better than

Others are better/worse than I am at...
I am not good at ...
I need to be better at ...

Miss out

I missed out
I am behind schedule in my life (I should be further along)
It is possible to miss out

Alone

I am alone
It is possible to be alone
I need ... in my life (in need a partner, I need her as a partner, I need more friends, I need better friends)
I can't be happy without her/him

My parents

My parents should have done a better job
My parents were not up to the task
My parents don't love me
My parents don't accept me for who I am

My children

I should have raised my children differently
My children should appreciate me (for what I did for them)
My children's life should be different
My children should make different choices in their lives
My child shouldn't have problems (be sick, have died)

Getting it

I don't get it
I need to ... get it, to know, understand, realize
It is possible for me to get it
It is possible for me to not get it

Something terrible

Something terrible will happen
Something terrible will happen if... I lose my job, I get sick, I die, she dies, I don't get it right
Something terrible can happen to me

Something is wrong

Something is wrong
Something is wrong with ... me, life, the world, others, democrats, republicans, God

Right and wrong

I am right
It is possible to be right
I never do it right
I know what is right
It is possible to know what is right

Good and bad/evil

I am never good enough
There shouldn't be evil in the world

I am needed

I am needed in the world
The world ... is better with, needs me in it
People need to hear what I have to say
The world ... needs me, my insights, my love (life, my family, my parents, partner, children, friends, community, work)

I am

I am ... (any label related to politics, ethnicity, age, gender, etc.)
I am a body
I am a human being
I am
I

Too much

Life is too much for me (to handle)
The world is too much for me
My problems are too much for me
My work is too much for me
Inquiry is too much for me (there are too many statements to inquire into)

I don't like

I ... don't like, can't stand, can't live with can't be around ... inconsiderate, rude, racist people
I don't like ... this weather, rain, cold, snow, windy, storm, thunder
I don't like him/her
I don't like people who are ... noisy, rude, crude, bigots, racists, belong to that political party

Knowing what to do

I don't know what to do
I need to know what to do
If I don't make the right choice, something terrible will happen
It is possible to know what to do
There is a right choice

Truth

It is possible to know truth
It is possible to know anything for certain
I need to know what is true

Trapped

I am trapped
There is no way out
I am stuck
I don't see my way out
I need to get out of this

Don't have anything to share

I don't have ... anything, any gifts to share
People won't be interested in what I have to offer
People won't listen to ... me, what I have to say
Other people have more interesting things to talk about
What I have to say is obvious and not important
Everybody already knows it

Success

I need success
I am not worthy of success
I won't be successful
It is possible to be successful (not successful)

Belonging

I need to ... belong, find my place
Life should make it easier for me to ... belong, find my place
I don't belong ... in the world, in life, in this society, in this culture
There is no room for me in the world

Self-worth

I am not worth anything
I am inferior/superior
I am only a piece of dirt
I only take up space
I'll never amount to anything
I'll never succeed
I am never good enough

Time

I don't have time
I will never get it all done
There is not enough time
People should be on time
I need to be on time

Money

I don't have enough
I don't have enough money (I need more money)
I am not able to make money (enough money)
I can't handle money
People with money are ... hoarders, corrupt, have sold out
People without money are ... losers, outsiders
If I lose my money, something terrible will happen
I need to know how to invest my money
I need money to be respected (I need to be respected)
I need money to live a good life
I need money to get what I want out of life

Age

I am too old/young
I shouldn't have to age
There is nothing good about aging
Old people are ... not respected, outcasts, victims, at the mercy of others
Old people ... get sick, lose their mind, lose control of their body and mind
Old ... bodies, minds fall apart

Sickness and death

My body shouldn't be sick
My body can be sick
She, him, they, I shouldn't ... die, have to die, have died
... shouldn't have died ... so early, in that way, in pain, from disease
I, she, him, they are going to die
I don't want to die
Death is ... terrifying, unjust, cruel
I, she, he, they, humans, Earth, life needs to survive

Change

They need to ... change, do things differently
... the world, life, my life should be different
... they, she, he, I ... should be, need to be different
... the world, life, my life shouldn't change
I can't handle .... change, more change, unpredictable change
I won't be able to adapt to change
I don't want to live in a changed world

Overwhelmed

... overwhelms me (life, the world, my work, my family, my illness, my problems)
... shouldn't overwhelm me

Politics

The world should be without ... war, injustice, poverty, suffering, racism, abuse of power
People should be more ... engaged, informed, aware
People shouldn't be deceived by ... politicians, media, corporations

Ecology

People shouldn't destroying the Earth
It is possible to destroy the Earth
I need to save the planet

Any of these may be good to explore. Maybe especially those that seem too true for inquiry...! It is obviously true, so why even inquire into them? Or the ones where something cringes in me... I believe that one, and am not sure I want to explore it. I certainly notice one or both of those come up for some of these statements.

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