Inquiry :: Contractions
I notice that other people going into contractions and resistance sometimes trigger the same in me. So...
She should not attach to resistance.
- Yes (Because it is uncomfortable for me.)
- No (It is just what people do. Also, cannot know what is best for her and mine paths.)
- What happens when I believe that thought (and she goes into resistance)?
I go into resistance myself. I resist her resistance, and I attach to my own resistance to her resistance. I do exactly what I see her do.
What is the worst that can happen if I don't have that belief?
I wouldn't care if I go into contractions or not myself. I would go into contractions, although I also see that going into resistance is what I do with the belief. - Who or what would I be without that thought?
Free to not go into resistance, even if others around me do. Free from having to mirror what I see in them. Free to stay in clarity. Free to follow my own process, independent of what I see in those around me (at least in this particular area). - (a) She should attach to resistance.
Yes, it is what she does, according to my story. It is her process. Her path. It is what people do. I cannot expect to only be around people who never go into resistance.
(b) I should not attach to resistance.
Yes, the advice is for me. When I see someone else going into resistance, I do not need to do the same. I can stay in clarity.
(c) My thoughts should not attach to resistance.
True as well. When I see resistance in others, I tend to fuel thoughts about that resistance so my own thoughts attaches to it that way. Again, my advice is for myself. I don't need to fuel these thoughts. I can allow them their freedom.
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