Integrated View
From an integrated view, both the absolute and relative - Big Mind and small self - are included. When lived through a human being, both are there simultaneously and there is a fluidity in which one is expressed more clearly in any situation.
The ordinary, conventional view is included. There is pain, suffering, missed opportunities, delusion and enightenment, right and wrong, development and regression, existence and nonexistence, birth and death.
And the Big Mind view is included. From the absolute, there is no delusion and no enlightenment, no birth and no death. And viewing the relative in the context of the absolute, we see that all phenomena are born from the absolute and fade back into the absolute. It is all Existence manifesting and exploring itself, beyond and including all dualities - including that of existence and nonexistence.
Everything is ordinary, with an added dimension.